· Be friendly and confident.
· A smile and a positive attitude go a long way.
· Introduce yourself. State your name clearly and offer a handshake if appropriate to the situation (consider the pandemic and social distancing).
· Find common ground. Look for something to chat about based on the situation. Are you at a party? Mention the host or the music. In line for coffee? Talk about your shared wait.
· Be an active listener.
· Pay attention to what she says and ask follow-up questions.
· Respect her boundaries.
· If she seems uninterested in conversation, don't be pushy.
Here's what to avoid:
· Focus on race. There's no need to mention her race in the introduction.
· Use pick-up lines or cheesy compliments.
· Focus on having a genuine conversation.
· Be overly familiar or disrespectful.
Catching someone's attention is more about being yourself and creating a connection than any specific tactic. Here are some general tips:
1. Be interesting! Pursue your passions and have things to talk about.
2. Be positive. People gravitate towards those who uplift them.
3. Be respectful. Treat everyone with kindness and courtesy.
The best way to connect with someone is to be genuine and show interest in them as a person.
What are some other ways to introduce yourself that are impactful?
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